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Tuesday, 18 September 2007

  • "Sex and the City" quotes to live by...

    1. if a man man wants you nothing, nothing can keep him away
        if he doesn't want you nothing can make him stay.

    2. stop for makin excuses for a man and his behavior

    3. if you have ANY doubt about a man's character,
        leave him alone

    4. allow your intuition to save you from your heartache!

    5. stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's
        NOT meant to be.

    6. DON'T force an attraction!

    7. SLOWER is better!

    8. Have faith in God regarding your relationship,
        but don't let your faith make you stupid.
        god makes things decent and in order.

    9. DON'T settle!

    10. if you feel he is stringing you along,
          then he probably is.

    11. Honorable men take care of their business and
          are not involved in a whole lot of mess.

    12. The only person you can control in a relation ship is YOU!

    13. there is only ONE reason why a man DUMPS you...
          he does NOT want you!

    14. avoid men with bunch of children from different women,
          he didnt marry them when he got them pregnant,
          why would he treat you any differently?

    15. you do really have to kiss a few frogs,
          before you find your prince!

    16. always have your own set of friends separate from his

    17. if he doesnt call...
          he just isn't that interested!

    18. Be honest and upfront!

    19. Never fall for the "I'm confused" role.
          Remove yourself from the situation to let him figure out himself.
          You move on!

    20. if you want to have a clue on how he will treat you,
          see how he treats women in his family not only his mom.

    21. You can't change a man's behavior.
          change comes from w/in.

    22. don't let him plae rules on you that he is not willing to follow himself---DOUBLE STANDARD

    23. He is no your god... he's just a man... nothing more, nothing less.

    24. Demand RESPECT! If he can't give that, he can't have you!

    25. Don't compete w/ other women, but be aware that he can be attracted w/ what they see.

    26. Actions speak louder than words!

    27. Never let a man define who you are.

    28. Never rely on a man's compliment, look to yourself for that.

    29. Never borrow someone else's man.

    30. If he cheated w/ you, he'll cheat on you too.

    31. Just bcoz he says he loves you, doesnt mean he wo't hurt you and that you're meant to be.

    32. Love is a VERB!

    33. a man will treat you the way you allow him to treat you.

    34. All men are not DOGS.

    35. you should not be the one doing all the bending...
          compromise is a 2-way street.

    36. if you don't love yourself...
          you cant love someone else.

    37. Make him miss you. if a man always knows where you are
          and that you're always available for him he'll take you for granted.

    38. Give him space.. let him hang out w/ the other boys.

    39. Never move in to his mother's house.

    40. Provide yourself financially, never depend on someone else.

    41.  never believe you have a perfect guy.

    42. when it's time to let go... let it go!

    43. Don't play games!

    44. keep him in your radar, but get to know others.

    45. Compatibility in terms of educational attainment, values, beliefs,
          personal and career goals, and socio-economic status are also important.

    46. NEVER  date a guy who wears colored contacts! 
          

Wednesday, 28 June 2006

  • Munting Prinsesa sa Ilalim ng Punong Acacia

    Naglalaro si Nenita 

    Kasama si Ponyang                            

    Hala... sige habulan!

    Sa ilalim ng punong Acacia

    Sila ay naghaharutan.

    Taya - tayaan.

    Tagu - taguan.

    Nadapa si Nenita.

    Sa malaking ugat ng punong Acacia

    Sumubsob ang mukha nia.

    Tumawa si Ponyang.

    Natakot si Nenita.

    Sa ilalim ng puno

    May nakita siya.

    Isang prinsesa.

    Kinulong.

    Sinaktan.

    Gutom

    Ngunit may korona.

     

     

     

     

Wednesday, 21 June 2006

  • RE: Might lose you again

    Hi! You must have been wondering if I've read your letter, if I'm going to answer it or not. For the nth time I would tell you that I am so aware that I'm hurting you, but let me just clarify that it was never my intention.

    Honestly, I do not know where to start. Just like you I'm bad with letters especially if it's for someone... but you know what I was so overwhelmed with what you wrote, I cried. Somehow I feel guilty coz I feel that I don't deserve to be treated like that coz I wasn't so nice to you. I was touched coz I never thought that I would be loved that much.

    I was silent for a long time because I really don't know how to answer your question. You were there for a long time and I appreciate your presence. Though I know the intentions that lies behind such presence, I still feel the sincerety whenever we hangout. Whenever I look at it, we get along well and I am really comfortable being with you.

    I dunno myk... I dunno the reason why I can't seem to envision us being "together". I like everything about you, you're really special. Don't think that I'm just talking shit... or just sugarcoating. Everything is true.

    Probably, I'm scared of losing the chemistry that we have, because in every relationship that I get into, everytime it gets official the official problem takes place as well. I don't want that. I don't want us fighting about stuff. I don't want us to go through a very unstable relationship.

    Our relationship is a lot more special than being boyfriend-girlfriend. I know you may find this idea really shitty. But there are some good relationships that I wouldn't want to lose or I could not risk to destroy. That's why I don't want to get into anything complicated especially with you involved.

    Yeah I know this is bullshit... I hope you're not mad at me... Sorry if I hurt you.

    Dale

     

Friday, 09 June 2006

  • HIGHSCHOOL - Isang Dekada ng Pagkakaibigan

    Lahat ng tao ay may kaibigan, malamang lahat tayo ay marami nian, pero ilan lang sa mga kaibigang ito ang maituturing tapat at totoo sayo? Minsan kahit gaano pa sila karami, mangilan-ilan lang ang matitra sa panahon ng kapighatian.

    Kaya naman masasabi kong maswerte ako, kahit na sa lovelife eh mejo palpak ako, napagtanto ko na sa mga kaibigan ay wala akong kalugihan. Sa mga nagdaang panahon, pareparehong mukha lang ang nakakasalamuha ko, malungkot man o masaya, pareparehong mukha lang ang karamay ko.

    Sabi nga sa kantang nakalakihan namin... "nagsimula ang lahat sa skwela, nagsamasamang labing dalawa, sa kalokohan at sa tuksuhan, hindi maawat sa isa't isa" ... 10 taon na ang nakalipas simula ng magkakilakilala kami, 1st yr highschool kami noon, isang malaking grupo na walang ibang ginawa kundi magkulitan at mag asaran.

    Madalas pagalitan ng teacher kasi madadaldal... pero kahit na ganun... matatalino naman! =) Naaalala nio ba nung nagtakbuhan tayo from the tennis court pabalik ng classroom, tapos si Mrs. Loba galit na galit dahil ginagawa daw natin siyang “panakot”.

    Masarap balikan yung alaala ng highschool, tanda ko pa nun madalas nag-aaway si marjune at mark, minsan nadaganan nio pa si jefferson at tuloy naging black listed, at yung away naming ni Angela dahil lang sa calculator. At sino naman ang makakalimot sa pagtambay natin sa bahay namin... bata palang tayo gin na ang iniinom, with Sprite and Judge chewing gum.

    Eto pa, xempre di pwedeng mawala ang mga ligawan at mga crush, hmmm... mark-isabel- marjune? louie-isabel-iking, hehehe... isabel-michael-aiza? =) yhem-oliver- kaye? hehehe... mga love triangle... hahaha! Ako and si Jeff… (ayan na inamin ko na, na crush mo ko)

    hahahaha! Eh yung mga lovers... hmmm...  dati) aiza and mike (labz #06), alaine and khaye, angela and oliver, louie and isabel, isabel and iking, a.r. and mhing at nadz at ako

    (the best na love team yan) hehehehe! grabe... bata pa tayo eh malalandi na ang tropa! hahahaha!

    Madalas din mag-outing ang tropa, halos taon taon, Volets at Starluck… hehehe… ano na kya nangyari sa mga resort na yun?  Siyempre, di rin ako present nun, minsan takas pa kasi strict pa ang parents ko nun eh, dati nga di ako pinayagan dahil sa SARS diba? Hahahah! =) Oh Louie, natatandaan mo ba nung inaway ka ni papa sa bahay and nung JS prom.

    And speaking of JS prom, memorable din yun diba. Mga “first and last dance” , pagtulog kina Mhing at Mike.

    Maliban sa mga yan eh di ko makakalimutan yung mga dramahan lalo na ang mga classic na palusot ni  Michael na “i want to enjoy my highschhol life".

    Ang madalas na awayan naming nila Aiza and Isabel, pati narin ni Angela. Di rin talaga mawawala ang tampuhan sa magkakaibigan.

     

    Pero ang gusto ko sa lahat eh yung pagnagdadamayan na sa problema, panalo yun! Si Lau, palaging matatakbuhan yan kapag masama ang loob mo. Dati madalas pa tayo kina Kaye at doon nag-oopen forum, habang ang iba eh ngtatambling at sumasayaw… naaalala nio pa ba yun DANCE GROUP nila Mike, AR, Oliver, pati yata si Iking at Louie e dinamay pa jan… hahahah! Active din ang tropa sa school activities eh.

     

    Kung meron pambato sa sayaw siyempre di kami pahuhuli ni Nad’z sa kantahan. Pero talagang mahilig tayo sa kantahan eh, minsan mesa lang ang instrumento, kayang kaya ni Louie siyempre ang clarinet na hawak ni  yun, Mike, wag kalimutan. Ayos din sa jamming ang tropa noh!

     

    Napakadami pang bagay akong nais sabihin, mga alaala na sadjang nakakapagpangiti sa’kin lalu na sa panahong masama ang loob ko. Maisip ko lang yung panahong magkakasama tayo na masaya, kahit tumatawid tayo sa gitna ng rumaragasang baha, tawa pa rin ng tawa. Lahat tayo pagmagkakasama, kahit sa edad natin ngayon para pring mga bata, nagwawala basta nanjan tropa, lasing man o hindi. Masaya tayo kasi wala tayong pakialam kung ano sabihin ng iba, basta ang halakhak natin abot hangang kay San Pedro. Masarap maging bata, lalo na kung mejo tumatanda ka na.

     

    “Lumipas na ang ilang taon, magkaibigan parin ngayon”, 10 taon na, ang ilan sa’min nasa Tate, ung iba nawala na lang ng sadya, pero marami parin ang natira. Marami nang nagbago, karamihan abala na sa trabaho… si Isabel, puro trabaho naku minsan magparamdam ka naman, Louie- trabaho at babae,magparamdam ka rin minsan, si Mark abala sa factory niya ng bag, si Mike… hmm… factory ng babae? Ginoong Laspinas ito! Hahaha… good boy nrin yan noh (sana!). Kamusta naman ang nurse ng tropa, si Oliver? Gwapo parin! Si Yhem din pala nurse na, e si Khaye, balita ko mag-aasawa na. Si Marjune at Nad’z at Jeff… talagang nag-asawa na… tatay na tatay na! Si Iking naman, hmmm… siya na yata may-ari ng Hurricane e. Si Pardz, Lau at akohehehe… nagpapayaman!

    Ngayon ko lang naisip na napakalaki ng pamilya natin, kulang pa nga yan kung tutuusin, marami ang nawala na lang, kaya sana minsan magpakita naman kayo. Pero kahit nasan man ang bawat isa sa atin, patuloy parin ang pagkakaibigan. Sa sampung taong pinagsamahan natin, hindi biro ang kalimutan kayo. Kalahati ng buhay ko kayo ang kasama ko. Sana sa susunod pang taon ng buhay natin, magkaibigan parin tayo.

     

    10 taon at higit pa… yan ang dalangin ko.

    Dale =)